Aren't you happy for me?

Gem — Fri, 22 May 2009 21:33:25 GMT

We started in a rough start, had few conflicts and later ironed out mostly openly and quickly. Regardless how many times I seek advises from Yedda, and many has asked me to dumb my bf, I kept on going having faith in this relationship as I loved him so much. There were times I thought I almost lost him, but he keeps on coming back to me. Once I confronted him and addressed my concerns to him in length, which has awakened him. He gave me his insight thoughts and feelings, he has handled the situation most compassionately and with mild manner (non temperamental) - totally awesome. One of the best qualities I like about my bf is that he always relate our commitment to God as individual and as couple... That attribute has given me full respect for him, as I see in him such matured, intelligent, God fearing, affectionate and ever forgiving man. I love him all over again! I have never thought that we can communicate so well over chatting online and solved them amicably without hurting or judging one another. His is direct and firm in his terms but also he aknowledged there were times I was hurt and he apologized, finally we both exchanged our loving vows (thats the best we can do at the moment as we are miles apart lol). His willingness to "hear" me made a huge difference in my self-esteem and strengthened our relationship. Now I can say we more steady and both 100% committed, faithful and trust - have become closer and the more we love each other. I have no more worries or doubt about us.. and looking forward for the future. Anyway I like to thank those who gave me encouragement and some discouragement, but that keeps me going stronger and here I am to say that we all need is to face our problems, solve them and NOT running away from it........

Communication is especially important when situations aren't particularly easy or pleasant. But knowing that we're committed to each other helps us confront, confess, and open up more freely. Aren't you guys happy for me?

RE: Aren't you happy for me?

OronD — Sat, 23 May 2009 03:38:27 GMT

Hi Gem, ------- I am very happy for you for being able to create such a HUGE change and lead you (both) to a real good place. It seems that you found the perfect guy (and he found a real loving fighter / partner). G-d bless you two. -------- Best regards,