http://yedda.com/questions/Bat_Mitzvah_invitation_question_149037116492865/?src=rss:qb:qbsBat Mitzvah invitation questionen-ushttp://static1.yeddacdn.com/images/Logo132X46_rmt9c1d22d.jpghttp://yedda.com/questions/Bat_Mitzvah_invitation_question_149037116492865/?src=rss:qb:qbsBat Mitzvah invitation questionhttp://yedda.com/questions/Bat_Mitzvah_invitation_question_149037116492865/?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>I have two daughters who are different ages and will become B'not Mitzvah this year. Whose name should be first on the invitation? Should it be the oldest or alphabetical?</p><p>thanks for your help</p>karenkaren43questionSun, 11 Oct 2009 02:43:48 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/Bat_Mitzvah_invitation_question_149037116492865/?src=rss:qb:qbihttp://yedda.com/questions/Bat_Mitzvah_invitation_question_149037116492865/oldest_627221705379732?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>I would put the oldest first.</p>KibbutzKibbutz58answer3.0Sun, 11 Oct 2009 06:17:50 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/Bat_Mitzvah_invitation_question_149037116492865/oldest_627221705379732?src=rss:qb:qbihttp://yedda.com/questions/Bat_Mitzvah_invitation_question_149037116492865/Traditionally_Jewish_culture_oldest_862697608113175?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>Traditionally in Jewish culture, the oldest comes first. In some cases this is adhered to so rigidly that the younger daughter is not allowed to marry until the oldest daughter has married.</p>bonestructurebonestructuremale59answer3.0Sun, 11 Oct 2009 17:59:50 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/Bat_Mitzvah_invitation_question_149037116492865/Traditionally_Jewish_culture_oldest_862697608113175?src=rss:qb:qbihttp://yedda.com/questions/Bat_Mitzvah_invitation_question_149037116492865/Karen_respect_celebrate_Bat-Mitzva_735133197133901?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>Hi Karen,<br/>With all respect: You celebrate Bat-Mitzva <strong>exactly at the age of 12</strong>.  If your 2 daughters are not twins than you have to celebrate it separately (each one when she gets 12 years old).    <br/>Best regards,</p>OronDOronDmale110answer4.0Mon, 12 Oct 2009 19:14:57 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/Bat_Mitzvah_invitation_question_149037116492865/Karen_respect_celebrate_Bat-Mitzva_735133197133901?src=rss:qb:qbi