http://yedda.com/questions/Boys_495706038305111/?src=rss:qb:qbsBoys, you cant live with them and you cant live without themen-ushttp://static1.yeddacdn.com/images/Logo132X46_rmt9c1d22d.jpghttp://yedda.com/questions/Boys_495706038305111/?src=rss:qb:qbsBoys, you cant live with them and you cant live without themhttp://yedda.com/questions/Boys_495706038305111/?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>ok so i love this guy, i have loved him and have wanted him for along time now. he has told me that i have been more of a sister figure than a girlfriend, i understood so i backed off. well this june he said i have grown into my body and have matured alot, he tells me that he likes me. well that was 2 days before he left for the army. it has been 4 month since i have seen or talked to him, i cant get him out of my head do i wait 5 years to miight get my man or move on to a guy that is sweet to me and i am starting to like?? what should i do? </p>KritterKritterquestionTue, 22 Sep 2009 02:20:06 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/Boys_495706038305111/?src=rss:qb:qbihttp://yedda.com/questions/Boys_495706038305111/ask_parents_address_write_495271337397117?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>Why not ask his parents for the address where you can write him?</p>bonestructurebonestructuremale59answer3.0Tue, 22 Sep 2009 03:42:36 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/Boys_495706038305111/ask_parents_address_write_495271337397117?src=rss:qb:qbihttp://yedda.com/questions/Boys_495706038305111/on--why_wait_5_years_happen_nbsp_350761311141148?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>Move on--why wait 5 years for something that might not happen.  At that point in time, he might still consider you more of a sister figure and you will have wasted five years of your life. It's been four months and he hasn't written to you.  Why?</p> <p>There's an old saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder--for someone else."</p> <p>Life is too short--move on and look for your true love.  When you find him, you will find true happiness.</p>URI93URI9371answer4.0Tue, 22 Sep 2009 13:32:16 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/Boys_495706038305111/on--why_wait_5_years_happen_nbsp_350761311141148?src=rss:qb:qbihttp://yedda.com/questions/Boys_495706038305111/old_nbsp_teens_early_20s_suggest_495742937165119?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>First off, how old are you?  If your in your teens or very early 20's, I suggest you keep in contact by writting him.  You can learn a great deal about a person by letters.  As for waiting 5 yrs., I would'nt put my life on hold.  Go out and live your life then after he gets out and home again then see what happens with him.  Alot can change in that time.  Good luck.</p>janiegirljaniegirlfemale56answer3.0Thu, 24 Sep 2009 04:47:52 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/Boys_495706038305111/old_nbsp_teens_early_20s_suggest_495742937165119?src=rss:qb:qbi