Lost Soul..

seullete — Sat, 17 Oct 2009 14:15:14 GMT

Hi, I am a graduate of two different courses, both technical related..I came from a middle class family but i was priviledge to be provided with such education. I was an achiever during my younger days thats why my family persuaded me to get a challenging course, which i have agreed due to financial issues (I dont have the luxury to choose )..To make the story short I managed to finish the two courses, one is chemical related and the other is computer realated. I dont really enjoy techinical courses although i can get by, and even finished with high grades. But it doesnt mean i love what I'm doing. I just did it economy wise, but still when i faced the reality of life, i feel like i was bethroted to a person that of course I'm going to be with for the rest of my life which I dont honestly love. Looking back i want to meet the people's expectation but i honestly mourn for the wasted time I have spent in my life doing things that i dont really like..I feel like I'm a looser still..can anyone give me some advice?

RE: Lost Soul..

kunal — Sat, 17 Oct 2009 14:42:10 GMT

Hi... my name is kunal.

I read your question . I think that till now U had tryed your best but not so far.life is great but the way you think is different my father says that the person who ,struggle only he can achive his goal . just try to be a struggler & try to forget all useless things . just take a name of god & start your day & think always positive. best of luck .

RE: Lost Soul..

Rob — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 00:22:15 GMT

I suggest you go see a psychologist to talk about your life and problems; they are trained in trying to help people sort out thinking and feelings problems and they might HELP YOU come up with a good plan for you to work on to better yourself and your future.

ROB

RE: Lost Soul..

rovad — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 17:38:56 GMT

That's something I am experiencing too, I realize college and computing science are not something I would want and love to do for the rest of my life. I like computers and I like programming and web design, but it's my hobby, not something I would like to do as a job.

I am actively involved in Internet marketing and making money online trends, that is where I see my opportunity to achieve financial independence, and live the lifestyle of my dreams. In the meantime I will have to finish my college and faculty education, but in the end I really don't want to do it.

I think you need to first look inside yourself and see if there is anything that REALLY makes you happy - and I mean really. For example, I like computer games, playing basketball, going to gym, making (amateur) rap/hip-hop beats, surfing the internet and playing with my turtle pet. Oh and I love dogs, but my mother doesn't approve them in the apartment, so I had to settle with the turtle pet :D.

Can you live from those things? No! So I am actively struggling now, when I am still young (19 years old at the moment) to make something bigger of my life - I am both struggling to finish my college ASAP and develop and establish my online business reputation in areas I am good in. Eventually, I WILL make something stable and lasting on the Internet and be able to live the kind of life where I don't do (too many) things I don't really like.

Find out what you like/love, and pursue those goals and visions!!!