Ok so.......I NEED ADVICE

arghh — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 11:13:35 GMT

ok so.......please dont judge me i feel horrid i just need advice. i really like a guy but he has a girlfriend i have been sleeping with him and at first it was just a bit of fun but now i really like him and he likes me, i know his girlfriend really well. i met them together but him and i just get along so well. he has talked to me about his feelings but i cant talk to him about mine. i hate expressing my feelings, i just can't do it. i even try and stop myself from crying in front of my best friend i can't express my feelings and i really need some help becasue i really want to.....HELP

RE: Ok so.......I NEED ADVICE

DB Lady — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 11:30:25 GMT

Hi,

First of all, I think that you feel guilty that you betrayed your friend's trust. You are cheating your friend with a cheater. What makes you think he'll be loyal and faithful to you? This man is taking advantage of both of you. He's using you both sexually. What a lucky man !!!

I think that you should stay away from this man and let him decide who he really wants. You just don't know if you'll get any sexually transmitted disease.

RE: Ok so.......I NEED ADVICE

gary999 — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 12:09:20 GMT

"What a lucky man !!!"

I have to agree with the advice you received from DBL. Whether he realizes it or not, this guy must be living his wildest fantasy. Well, come to think of it, there is one other thing that ... No, No, No Gary, don't go there. You've made your point so get out while you can.

RE: Ok so.......I NEED ADVICE

Elden — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 13:52:00 GMT

What do you need help with? Being a cheating slut ?

RE: Ok so.......I NEED ADVICE

Terry Crenshaw — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 18:46:34 GMT

Hey Girl, Listen real close!!

Your only human, you make mistakes.. However, I've learned along time ago the best way to deal with others is to put yourself in their shoes. Would you want a serious relationship with someone whom is sleeping with someone else, if so you really do need help, for real. The best answer.. you already know it. Be Honest!! (with yourself). If you really care for this guy, and want him for yourself, he has to be a real MAN and choose only you. Otherwise, move on.. I'm proof there's other good man out there. By the way don't let those negative remarks from others bother you. Why is it ok for guys to sleep around, and not girls.. it's not we're all human and make mistakes.. Just stop it, and find a good guy....we're out here.