Poor guy and Rich girl in love.

Nine Inch Nails — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 08:31:05 GMT

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 6(almost 7 months) and we know almost everything there is to know about each other. We've had sex..and want to live the rest of our lives together and we believe we are perfect for each other. Except one problem, its all been over the internet. Please dont judge me I really do love her more than anything and would do anything to be with her.. so I live in Florida and she is moving to Colorado next summer..We are both 16 and I've talked to her mom and her mom likes me. Also, she is very rich I found out..(could care less I dont want her for the money). And her mom has offered to pay for me to go to college with her..I dont like to take money from people..its just something I was always brought up not to do..Anyways besides those things, my parents dont know anything about any of this and they just think im some complete failure(dont really care) so I dont know how this all is going to work out. We both want to get married and have kids and travel the world and everything..So I found out shes coming to Florida for a few days on vacation and she wants to come get me to go to Miami with her and like 30 of her friends(all rich) and to meet her for the first time. Her mom invited me to go..My parents are still clueless, im a bit nervous..She told me she wanted to have sex when we see each other..And its just a whole bunch of things going on..In 2 years when we both graduate she wants me to take the money to go with her to college and we can live together and go to college together and all that. Apparently her mom has given her money she can access after she turns 18..She told me that they have like 4 houses and a lamborghini so im guessing that they are very rich..and she will probably have a lot of money. Something im not used to being just an average kid..

I dont how any of this is going to go and im confused about what I should do or what I have to do..I do know though that she is definetly "the one" for me and I love her alot. I just need some advice on what I should do.

Edit:My profile age is a lie. Im not 26, Im 16. And none of this is false.

RE: Poor guy and Rich girl in love.

DB Lady — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 09:56:17 GMT

Hi,

First of all, you met her via internet. Are you sure she is telling the truth about herself being rich? If it's true, would you like to say yes to her proposal that her mother will send you to college? If you will do this, then you become the puppet of that rich family. Ypu will deeply be indebted financially and you can never say no to whatever they want you to do. Do you want to be this kind of man?

You are both young and there are going to be a lot of things that will happen. Take the relationship easy, think about the fact that you may be treated poorly by these people because of the fact that they will send you to college.

Don't you want to be a real man? A man who knows how to work for his own education, even if you end up taking student loans to finsh college. I would think that you will feel a lot better about yourself if you finished college without their financial help.

That's just my humble opinion. You can take it or leave it.

RE: Poor guy and Rich girl in love.

bonestructure — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 15:02:25 GMT

You're awfully young to be deciding the entire future of your life. I won't say that being in love at your age isn't real. I know it is. But people change a lot as they mature, they become different people.

Something else to consider. You say she wants to get you to go to Miami with a bunch of her rich friends. Sounds good, right? Except at your age, peer pressure is a major element of life, and no matter how hard you and she may love each other, you won't fit in with that social crowd. I don't mean to sound mean about it, it's just kind of the way things work.

RE: Poor guy and Rich girl in love.

foxygram — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 19:23:04 GMT

#1 Your parents should be informed

i don't understand why rich girls mom is promoting all of this

You are both very young. Have u had other dating experiences other than online?

I would take all of this very slowly and be cautious and careful..

RE: Poor guy and Rich girl in love.

OronD — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 16:53:57 GMT

Hi,
I am a bit confused: Your profile says you are 26 years old. If that is true than you invented a story (very nice one !)..... Having said that, that boy has to inform his parents and be on alert..... Personally I feel that something is fishy here ("too good to be true" stories).
Best regards,

RE: Poor guy and Rich girl in love.

DB Lady — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 17:57:27 GMT

Nine Inch Nails,

I agree with my friend OronD. Your profile says you're 26 and you said in your post you are 16. Which is true here? I think that you've been reading a lot of love stories from novels.

RE: Poor guy and Rich girl in love.

jkgrandma — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 18:08:09 GMT

The other thing that no one has mentioned is this: How do you know she is really a 16 year old girl?

What if she is really some homosexual geezer, looking to trick a teen into sex?

By the time you go to meet 'her' it will be too late; you'll be away from home and without any resources.

What then?

RE: Poor guy and Rich girl in love.

bee7989 — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 06:08:01 GMT

Hiii, I'm just confused about one part.. How have you had sex if it's all been over the internet? I mean, don't get me wrong, love comes in allll shapes&sizes.. but I really think you should get to know her in person first because you make all these very Adult & Complex descions.. You're only 16! I mean I'm 15&1/2 and I'm barely thinking about college, let alone.. going with my boyfriend. I just think you should "chill" and see how things go when you hang out with her.. If you're only gunna date her to get her money to go to college in the end- It's not real love.

If you wanna be with her & it works.. Hopefully she is very much in love with you and won't dump you over the next 2 years, Cuz then you're gunna wish you didn't trust her. This sounds complicated, that's just my opinion.. It's DEFINATLY not too late to turn your life around (: