Im so confused

dramaQu33N — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 23:07:40 GMT

i swear i put myself in these situations. now only if i could get out. I have recently been talking to a guy and we went out on a date and kissed. then he asked me to homecoming and i agreed. before all of this i broke up with my boyfriend and have been telling myself that i'm over him. but just the other day i had a complete breakdown and realized i might as well die without him (over exaggerated). we've been talking, text, im, all of that and then i saw him today and had to completely ignore him because of how uncomfortable it was. i kept feeling empty inside every time that i looked at him. but if we went back out i couldnt break his heart again. but i miss him holding me and having those late night convos when ur not suppose to be on the phone. On the other hand now i realized i don't like this new guy but i've been leading him on this whole time. so, how do i break it to him easily thats its not gonna work and i want to go to homecoming alone? and furthermore what do i do about my ex?

RE: Im so confused

talico33 — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 13:28:52 GMT

I think that the best thing to do first of all is to be honest with the new guy. Just tell him that you aren't ready for anything right now since you have recently broken up with your ex and you feel like you have rushed into it with him. That you feel like it would be only fair to him if you do not go to the homecoming together. It is the truth and you are still mixed up about your feelings for your ex. I think that you really need to take some time to think about why you broke up with him in the first place. What were your reasons. And now, are you only remembering the good things and that's making you want him back. If you realize that you really can't be without him, and you made a mistake, then I suggest asking him to meet you and telling him how you feel. At the end of the day, it will be his decision whether he wants to take you back or not, since you were the one to end the relationship. So just be ready for any answer. Good luck and I hope you manage to figure everything out. I hope I was able to help as well .

RE: Im so confused

aim91 — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 02:09:17 GMT

thats sweet i wish my boyfriend would have done that to me but i had to beg for his return look just tell him that you want to take it slow just tell him that everyday when ever he wants to make a move. he would eventuallly get tired. and for the boyfriend just text him call him am sure that hes been missing you as well and had been waiting for your call or text trust me.