Did a girl I fell in love with use me ? Did a girl I fell in love with use me to make my ...

santiagoart — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 02:07:29 GMT

Did a girl I fell in love with use me ?

Did a girl I fell in love with use me to make my ...

Did a girl I fell in love with use me to make my friend jealous and to see if he liked her? And when they got it together why did she keep rubbing it in my face?

I would be very grateful if people to tell me what they think she was doing. Did I miss read her or was she using me? The problem is I want to move on but I’m still hurt in love with how I thought she was.

It all happened a few years ago, I had just moved to London to start a university course and was at the time recovering from major surgery, which left me with a colostomy. I was not looking fro a relationship as I was just starting to accept having a colostomy. When I started the course I met a lady how seem nice over time she started to be very tactile with me touching me and liked to sit next to me and she also laughed a lot at things I said. Slowly over time I fell in love with her, by this time she new of my medical condition. I decided to pluck up the courage to ask her out so I could tell her how I felt. I think she new I liked her as a mutual friend told me later on. She said she was having to do work on her dissertation o I thought ok, I tried this a couple of time and the same thing was said. The odd thing was if she wanted to be just friends I thought she would have gone out and told me she want to be just friends or stopped the tactile giggly behaver around me. I thought she was playing hard to get. Eventual she said yes but in the one of her voice it sounded like a plan had gone wrong, later that night accidentally her friend I was walking home drunkenly mentioned she like my now ex friend. He asked me a while before I f there was any women I liked and I said yes and told him, he said there was no one he liked. But strangely over time he started acting funny like sulking around me. I decided after hearing what the drunken friend said the best thing to do was to have no more contact with the girl I loved so I’d be able to concentrate on my course. This was fine she left me alone for awhile but then she started trying to sit next to me join in my conversation and giggling and the tactile behaviour, by this time she new I loved her and was hurt knowing how she felt about my friend. I soon realised she had started dating my friend how acted funny around me before and said he did not like anyone I think he did and she used me to make him jealous. By this time as they were together he was acting like and idiot and trying to be really friendly with me and she was acting flirty, the thing is I’d hated the fact the new I did not want to have anything to do with them but the seem to lovely telling me about the favourite places the went out like they mentioned they hand a favourite jazz bare noodle bar and had been to Venice. I want to get cross but we all share some friend so I didn’t. Strangely when she saw me at an event chatting to mystery girls she looked really pissed off then later on when I was alone on a different day looking at a gallery she accidentally was at with her boyfriend she seemed to poses no consideration to my feeling and ran up to me laughing and being tactile. Eventually I managed to get rid of her when the course finished as I left London. I would really appreciate if people could tell me what the think she was doing thank

RE: Did a girl I fell in love with use me ? Did a girl I fell in love with use me to make my ...

jkgrandma — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 02:12:40 GMT

STOP IT! Stop it, stop it, stop it!!!

You have posted this same question AT LEAST 12 TIMES!

You have already gotten an answer - continuing to post this question over and over will not change what has happened.

Yes, maybe she used you on purpose and maybe she was just immature and you got hurt in the process.

The fact of the matter is, this happened several years ago. You need to let it go and move on.

If you can't do that, please seek help from a qualified mental health counselor.

RE: Did a girl I fell in love with use me ? Did a girl I fell in love with use me to make my ...

nomorepbreaks — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 11:16:25 GMT

I'm sorry you got hurt. It happens to most people at least once. Some people have it happen over and over especially if they keep choosing the same type of dates. If you are having trouble getting over her, go see a counselor. There are some really good self-help relationship books you can read too. Good luck. Blessings, ~ nmpb ~

RE: Did a girl I fell in love with use me ? Did a girl I fell in love with use me to make my ...

tsahpina — Fri, 01 Jan 2010 12:11:31 GMT

I DID NO THAVE THE NERVE TO READ YR WHOLE LETTR BUT MANY YERS AGO I WAS IN YR SHOES ALL THE TIME NEVERMINT THAT I WAS A GIRL

SO IN MY EXPERIENCD OPINION Y FELL IN LOVE WITH A WRONG FOR U AR FOR ANYONE FOR THAT MATTER GITL

SHE IS A BAD GIRL COS IF SHE WANTS U WHE IF WHE WWRE GOOD WOULD LOOK AND WANT ONLU

AND IF SHE DOES NTO WANT U WHE WOULD MAKE U UNDERSTAND IT CLEARLY SO THAT U WAOULD SOONER FALL OUT OF LOVE THEN LIKE THIS WHEN SHE IS NOT MAKING HERS STAND CLEART TO U THOU TO MY EYES HER BEHAVIOUR SAYS CLEARLY THAT SHE DOES NOT WNT U THE WAY U WANT HER

SHE IS PLAYING WITH U

SO THIS MAKES HER BAD GIRL

PUNISH HER BY STOPPING SHOWING INTEEST

SHELL BE HURT SOC SHES NARCISTIC

U MAY CONTINUE BE IN LOVE WITH HER WHERE U FELL AND IS NOT EASY TO CLIMB UP TO YR NORMAL SURFACE IN NOT BEING IN THE HOLE THAT WEA CALL BEING IN LOVE WITH

IM NOT SUGGESTING THAT U GET OUT OF LOVE SOC IT TAKES TIME

I SUGGEST U STOP SHOWING IT TO HER

THIS WAY ULL HERT HER VANITY

AND REVENGE HER NASTINESS IN PLAYING WITH A BOY THAT FELL IN LOVE WITH HER TO HER JOY SO TAHT SHE CAN PLAY WITH TWO MALE FRIENDS

WHICH IS VEEEEEEEEEEEERY BAD

ADN YES SHE WANTS TO PROCUCE A RAW BETWEEN U AND YR PRIEND AND IF HE IS NOT A RAL FRIEND TO Y SHELL SUCCEED

SO SHE IS WHAT SHE IS

A BITCH

BUT U TWO MALE FRIENDS CAN ALLOW HER PLAY HER DIRTY GAME ON U2 IN ORDER WHE FEELS BETTER ABOUT BEING THE CAUSE OF RAW BETWEEN TWO MALE FRIENDS SO SHE FEELS IMPORTANT WITHOUT WANTING EITHER OF U

IF U GET TO YR SENCES SO HAS TO DO YR FRIEND TOO

IF HE DOESNT YR LOOSE YR FRIEN

AND ULL NEVER GET NOR WILL HE THE GIRL BUT DDOES NOT MATTER FOR HER COS HER ONLY ANS SOLE INTENTION TO CAUSE A DEADLY ROW BETWEEN TWO MEN

WHY

COS SHE IS A BITSH

WAHIC DOES NOT MEANS ALL WOMEN ARE BITCHEES

NOR ARE ALL MEN BASTARDS

SOME PEOPLE ARE MEAN MONSTERS

SHE IS ONE OF THEM

U2 SHOULD BOTH AGREE TO KICK HER OUT OF YR COMMON LIFE BUT NOT NICLY JUST DISSAPPEAAR BUT

REVENGE

IF U AGREE TO IT ULL FIND A WAY

ONE WAY SI U FLIRT ONE OF HER GIRLFRIENDS AND LESS PREETY THIS IS IPPORTANT SHAILE YR FRIEND FLIRTS ANOTHER OF HER LESS PRETTY THAN HER HER PRIANDS

SO SHE GETS PISSED

SOMETHING SHE DESERVES

BUT THE TWO GIRLS WILL BE INNOCENT VICTIMS

WHICH PROVES MY REVENGE PLAN IS NOT SO GOOD AT ALL COS IT INVOLVES OTHER INNOENT PEOPLE WHICH IS AS BAD AS GHE DEVIL GIRL IS

IN CAE U2 CANT THING OF A GENTLEMANS WAY TO REVNGE HER WITHOUT HURTING INNOCENT PEOPLE,

THEN JUST WALK AWAY LIKE TWO GENTLEMEN

I DONT KNOW WHAT HE IS LIKE

BUT U ARE A GAENTLEMAN

AND STAY SUCH TO THE END OF YR DAYS

IT PAYS OFF AND FEELS GOOD

I KNOW COS I FINALLY BECAME A LADY SOMETHING THAT WAS HARD WHEN I WAS IN TEH LOVE GAME

IM KIND OF STILL THERE BUT WITH MY NEW RULES TAHT SAY

I AM A LADY AND WILL HAVE NOTHING WITH NON GENTLEMEN

IF U ADOPT MY ADVICE ULL SEE THAT IN FUTURE ULL MEET MORE

YOUNG LADIES

NOT BITCHES

AND ULL NEVER AGAIN FALL IN LOVE WITH A BITCH

COS SHES PRETTY FROM THE OUTSIDE BUT UGLY AND STINKD SROM THE INSIDE

HAUGH

NIKH

XXX