I am a man of 27 years old. i am married. but i ...

Rifat — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 11:33:55 GMT

i am a man of 27 years old. i am married. but i have faced some problems at the time of intercourse with my wife:

1) My pennies do not get stiff (But during masterbating or when i got feelings lonely, i hvae not faced this problems )

2) I do not get any pleasure at the time of ejaculation(Though i get pleasure at the time of masterbating).

3) Sometimes my pennies didn't get stiff at all. Sometimes it get stiff. Sometimes after getting stiff after a while it becomes cool.

N.B: 1) i am very much nervous

2) i m always in hesitation at the time of decision making.

Now my question is:

is it physical problem or mental? How can get rid of this problem?

RE: I am a man of 27 years old. i am married. but i ...

bonestructure — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 15:16:16 GMT

You need to explain these things to a doctor, and find out if the problem could be physical. A wide variety of things can cause problems like these. Once the physical source is either confirmed or dismissed, you can start dealing with the mental/emotional problems. It sounds to me as if you may be suffering from performance anxiety.