http://yedda.com/questions/love_family_relationships_350839351328374/?src=rss:qb:qbsIs my wife having an affair? Married 15 years, two ...en-ushttp://static1.yeddacdn.com/images/Logo132X46_rmt9c1d22d.jpghttp://yedda.com/questions/love_family_relationships_350839351328374/?src=rss:qb:qbsIs my wife having an affair? Married 15 years, two ...http://yedda.com/questions/love_family_relationships_350839351328374/?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>Is my wife having an affair? Married 15 years, two children 6 and 10. She isn't affectionate and sex is monthy if at all. Lately she has a sex hang-up, avoiding it all together. My suppitions led me to check her E-mail. All of her recent "sent and deleted" activity are gone. Her log on her sell phone also deleted. I've discussed the sex issue with her and she says she has no interest.</p>window guywindow guy48questionSun, 25 Oct 2009 02:10:27 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/love_family_relationships_350839351328374/?src=rss:qb:qbihttp://yedda.com/questions/love_family_relationships_350839351328374/need_marriage_counselor_Ask_reason_273593722518457?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>Hi, You both need to see a marriage counselor. Ask her the reason for her behavior. She also needs to see her medical doctor. She may have a medical condition that is causing this. Take care.</p>DB LadyDB Ladyfemale56answer3.0Sun, 25 Oct 2009 02:14:46 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/love_family_relationships_350839351328374/need_marriage_counselor_Ask_reason_273593722518457?src=rss:qb:qbihttp://yedda.com/questions/love_family_relationships_350839351328374/dr_phil_627001447376236?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>see dr phil</p>margaretmargaret43answer3.0Sun, 25 Oct 2009 03:45:42 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/love_family_relationships_350839351328374/dr_phil_627001447376236?src=rss:qb:qbihttp://yedda.com/questions/love_family_relationships_350839351328374/counselling_years_advice_log_eye_862907660193674?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>Hi,</p> <p>I have been counselling for many years and the first advice that I always give is to take the log out of your own eye before taking the splinter out of hers. You need to change the way you think and start to ask yourself <strong>what is wrong with you</strong>, that your wife is not interested in having <strong>sex with you</strong>. Possibly you have stopped giving her the attention that she needs. Possibly you are only intersted in satisfying yourself in sex and do not consider her needs. Possibly you are too involved in the other things in life and only turn to her when you ned sex. There are so many possibilities that you need to look at before you are able to point s finger at her.</p> <p>Remember always that in general a woman uses sex to get the touch that she desires, whilst a man uses touch to get the sex that he desires. Sex is a long process that starts long before you get to the bedroom. </p>fosjohfosjohmale50answer3.0Sun, 25 Oct 2009 05:11:14 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/love_family_relationships_350839351328374/counselling_years_advice_log_eye_862907660193674?src=rss:qb:qbi