I want to get back with my husband. I abruptly ...

MrsNoble — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 03:56:41 GMT

I want to get back with my husband. I abruptly left him and went back home. We are not communicating and I want to save the marriage. What can I do to help save our marriage?

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Rosie — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 12:26:32 GMT

Not enough information for intelligent advice. Why did you leave? Is he willing to come back? What is the real reason why do you want him back?

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funguy — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 14:32:32 GMT

First you must reestablish communication with him. You must decide the best way. It could be a simple phone call or maybe it would be a written note expressing your feelings and your desires. The first contact should not have blame in it, but a sincere expression of sorrow for leaving and asking if he is willing to talk to you about your marriage. If he is very angry it may take some time for him to cool down and for him to want to talk to you even if he does love you and will want to talk with you. If that is so, give him some time. Assure him you made a mistake in haste and you are sorry. You take it from where he is. If he is willing to talk, you may continue on and work things out. Follow the way things go. Since he is the one at home, you could go by and see if he will answer the door. Think it through. If you are religious people you may consider offering to go to your religious leader for counseling, but that would turn some men off. Use your best judgement. You know him and think about what king of person he is and what he might respond to and what would turn him off and take your best shot. If you really love this man you must reach out to him and not waste time to give him time to turn to someone else. God bless you and may it work out.

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lawbug — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 17:56:08 GMT

Ask your self why did you walk out on him in the 1st place Think long and hard to the reason why you left him. As the reason could not have been good you left him as i 1st stated was it you or him that you left because of what. As most people dont just dont turn and run there was a reason was ityou or him as it takes to people to argue now what was the reason STOP AND THINK BACK TO THAT DAY as to what happened then look in a mirror face to face with your self and then you will answer the Question for your self. If not wright back with more information on this matter.

RE: I want to get back with my husband. I abruptly ...

Rob — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 15:11:56 GMT

As Rosie said: "NOT ENOUGH INFORMATION to try to help you".

BUT OBVIOUSLY the first thing you will need to do is HAVE COMMUNICATIONS WITH HIM to

1. try to resolve whatever made you leave and

2. to tell him you want to get back together AND you want to work out whatever problems the two of you have (using communications and with help of a marriage counselor, if needed ).

ROB