I need help

christina — Mon, 15 Dec 2008 02:31:03 GMT

oka so i though i was straight because i have never had feelings for another girl before. Ive been friends with this girl who is lesbian but i have never felt anything for her and we have just been good friends for a long time. but just recently i started talking to this girl whos on then bball team with me and i think i like her. she is bi but idk if she likes me like that or not cuz im not like the people she has gone with..i really dont kno wut to do..how do i know if she likes me or not????.. or if i should tell her cuz if she dosent them things r gonna be weird..im really confused because ive never felt like this for a girl. plz help

RE: I need help

Jay aka EET — Mon, 15 Dec 2008 04:16:49 GMT

I would urge a girl of your age to seek out professional help in your home town. What I am saying is, is that I think it is vitally important for you to be face-to-face with someone as you explore these issues.

While there are some very good people here, you only get snippets of advice. You should invest however much time that it requires to help you resolve this question.

Respectfully,

JayR

RE: I need help

lovelyady — Mon, 15 Dec 2008 04:47:24 GMT

As advised, u should seek expert advice... u can't rely solely on the information/answers u get from here... It is kinda delicate, so care must be taken so as not to be misled. Hp u get a headway...

Good luck.

Ady

RE: I need help

DB Lady — Mon, 15 Dec 2008 11:39:41 GMT

Hi Christina,

I think that you could not help the way you feel. Just talk to the girl yourself. Be honest with who you are. Don't fight your feelings. If you are gay, then you are gay. Accept yourself.

Take care.

RE: I need help

Daniel — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 11:34:25 GMT

Two thumbs up DB Lady!!

It is perfectly okay, natural, and necessary that you be who you are. It is not necessary to put a label on it. All of us are simply sexual creatures. We are not gay, lesbian, or straight. The only 'rules' are those made by society, and the majority of those rules are made because of fear.

We are all creatures of the earth. We all have a right to be here, and be who we are. This 'being' does not involve violation of any kind. Be free and learn to love without fear.

With Kind Regards,

Daniel

RE: I need help

chris — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 15:34:07 GMT

christina, years ago i played ricky roma in david mamet's "glengarry glen ross." my favorite line was "tell them the truth, george, it's the easiest thing to remember."

RE: I need help

angeleyes — Wed, 17 Dec 2008 02:59:59 GMT

you should talk to someone whom could help with your feelings

RE: I need help

janissa10 — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 05:24:19 GMT

Try flirting with her a little and see where it goes. I don't think you should come out and tell her because you're right,if she doesn't feel the same way things will be different and you won't feel comfortable around her anymore.Just flirt a little and see what happens.