﻿<rss version="2.0" xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:foaf="http://xmlns.com/foaf/0.1/" xmlns:yedda="http://yedda.com/xmlns/qna/1.0/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/"><channel><title>Lack of sex from my fiance is why I'm here. We ...</title><link>http://yedda.com/questions/psychology_1495140151417/?src=rss:qb:qbs</link><description>Lack of sex from my fiance is why I'm here. We ...</description><language>en-us</language><image><title>Lack of sex from my fiance is why I'm here. We ...</title><url>http://static1.yeddacdn.com/images/Logo132X46_rmt9c1d22d.jpg</url><link>http://yedda.com/questions/psychology_1495140151417/?src=rss:qb:qbs</link><description>Lack of sex from my fiance is why I'm here. We ...</description></image><item><title>Lack of sex from my fiance is why I'm here. We ...</title><link>http://yedda.com/questions/psychology_1495140151417/?src=rss:qb:qbi</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Lack of sex from my fiance is why I'm here. We used to have sex fluently. Now we are down to 1-2 times a month. we both enjoyed oral as well and now I'm prohibited from trying or asking for it. She claims nothing is wrong, but the more she says that, the more I feel betrayed. I love being with her, but I hate feeling this way.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator>gifrankg</dc:creator><foaf:maker><foaf:Person><foaf:name>gifrankg</foaf:name><yedda:age>38</yedda:age><foaf:homepage rdf:resource="http://yedda.com/people/1861199816312/?src=rss:qb:ap" /><foaf:img rdf:resource="http://static1.yeddacdn.com/images/defaultUserIcon_rmt9c1d22d.gif" /></foaf:Person></foaf:maker><yedda:post><yedda:type>question</yedda:type></yedda:post><pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2009 05:46:40 GMT</pubDate><guid>http://yedda.com/questions/psychology_1495140151417/?src=rss:qb:qbi</guid></item><item><title>RE: Lack of sex from my fiance is why I'm here. We ...</title><link>http://yedda.com/questions/psychology_1495140151417/u_turn_tables_feel_way_asking_sex_862127836103970?src=rss:qb:qbi</link><description>&lt;p&gt;u should turn the tables on her and make her feel the way u do by not asking for sex at all until she actually comes to u for it. then she might get how u feel and have sex more often with u. or she just could be cheating on u...lol&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator>rebellion ownz</dc:creator><foaf:maker><foaf:Person><foaf:name>rebellion ownz</foaf:name><foaf:gender>male</foaf:gender><yedda:age>25</yedda:age><foaf:homepage rdf:resource="http://yedda.com/people/5188122010266/?src=rss:qb:ap" /><foaf:img rdf:resource="http://static1.yeddacdn.com/resources/00000023268/8cc49c7a0103f7a.jpg" /></foaf:Person></foaf:maker><yedda:post><yedda:type>answer</yedda:type><yedda:thread previous="http://yedda.com/questions/psychology_1495140151417/psychology_1495140151417" /><yedda:rating>3.0</yedda:rating></yedda:post><pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2009 06:34:17 GMT</pubDate><guid>http://yedda.com/questions/psychology_1495140151417/u_turn_tables_feel_way_asking_sex_862127836103970?src=rss:qb:qbi</guid></item><item><title>RE: Lack of sex from my fiance is why I'm here. We ...</title><link>http://yedda.com/questions/psychology_1495140151417/Try_doesnt_want_sex_anymore_186235051761723?src=rss:qb:qbi</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Try to find out why she doesn't want sex anymore.. if you can find out why, you will probably figure how to resolve this issue. Talk to her openly about this. Let her how it makes you feel &amp; how this is affecting your relationship. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator>janissa10</dc:creator><foaf:maker><foaf:Person><foaf:name>janissa10</foaf:name><foaf:gender>female</foaf:gender><yedda:age>31</yedda:age><foaf:homepage rdf:resource="http://yedda.com/people/3505771618945/?src=rss:qb:ap" /><foaf:img rdf:resource="http://static1.yeddacdn.com/resources/00000007428/8cbcb02de73f0c0.jpg" /></foaf:Person></foaf:maker><yedda:post><yedda:type>answer</yedda:type><yedda:thread previous="http://yedda.com/questions/psychology_1495140151417/u_turn_tables_feel_way_asking_sex_862127836103970" /><yedda:rating>3.0</yedda:rating></yedda:post><pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2009 04:13:02 GMT</pubDate><guid>http://yedda.com/questions/psychology_1495140151417/Try_doesnt_want_sex_anymore_186235051761723?src=rss:qb:qbi</guid></item><item><title>RE: Lack of sex from my fiance is why I'm here. We ...</title><link>http://yedda.com/questions/psychology_1495140151417/nbsp_need_heart-to-heart_talk_ask_149232311167754?src=rss:qb:qbi</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Hi,&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;   You need to have a heart-to-heart talk with her, ask her what is bothering her.  Maybe she just does not want to tell you that she is upset about something, or something you did or did not do, or else she loves someone else.  Actions speak louder than words.  But it's better to hear the reasons for her change of attitude towards you.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;    If she tells you something, be open-minded and be understanding. Tell her that you want to be with her and would like to have a nice pleasant relationship just like before.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Take care.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator>DB Lady</dc:creator><foaf:maker><foaf:Person><foaf:name>DB Lady</foaf:name><foaf:gender>female</foaf:gender><yedda:age>56</yedda:age><foaf:homepage rdf:resource="http://yedda.com/people/5180113519651/?src=rss:qb:ap" /><foaf:img rdf:resource="http://static1.yeddacdn.com/resources/00000006337/8ca826266910744.jpg" /></foaf:Person></foaf:maker><yedda:post><yedda:type>answer</yedda:type><yedda:thread previous="http://yedda.com/questions/psychology_1495140151417/Try_doesnt_want_sex_anymore_186235051761723" /><yedda:rating>4.0</yedda:rating></yedda:post><pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2009 05:39:52 GMT</pubDate><guid>http://yedda.com/questions/psychology_1495140151417/nbsp_need_heart-to-heart_talk_ask_149232311167754?src=rss:qb:qbi</guid></item><item><title>RE: Lack of sex from my fiance is why I'm here. We ...</title><link>http://yedda.com/questions/psychology_1495140151417/sounds_depressed_benefit_couples_350788351659047?src=rss:qb:qbi</link><description>&lt;p&gt;It sounds like she may be depressed. You may benefit from couple's therapy. Remember that once people become very familiar with each other, and spend more time with each other, the amount of sex usually decreases even if the quality doesn't. But in your case it seems both are happening. Get help. If she refuses help and still insists nothing is wrong but you feel otherwise, maybe you should move on. Good luck!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator>giggibb</dc:creator><foaf:maker><foaf:Person><foaf:name>giggibb</foaf:name><yedda:age>109</yedda:age><foaf:homepage rdf:resource="http://yedda.com/people/1863111516312/?src=rss:qb:ap" /><foaf:img rdf:resource="http://static1.yeddacdn.com/images/defaultUserIcon_rmt9c1d22d.gif" /></foaf:Person></foaf:maker><yedda:post><yedda:type>answer</yedda:type><yedda:thread previous="http://yedda.com/questions/psychology_1495140151417/nbsp_need_heart-to-heart_talk_ask_149232311167754" /><yedda:rating>4.0</yedda:rating></yedda:post><pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 15:53:05 GMT</pubDate><guid>http://yedda.com/questions/psychology_1495140151417/sounds_depressed_benefit_couples_350788351659047?src=rss:qb:qbi</guid></item></channel></rss>