http://yedda.com/questions/psychology_2731517526129/?src=rss:qb:qbsI felt in love with a man who is working as a ...en-ushttp://static1.yeddacdn.com/images/Logo132X46_rmt9c1d22d.jpghttp://yedda.com/questions/psychology_2731517526129/?src=rss:qb:qbsI felt in love with a man who is working as a ...http://yedda.com/questions/psychology_2731517526129/?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>I felt in love with a man who is working as a software engineer. I m working in marketing field. And we are from different languages, cultures, and etc etc. He is telugu, brahmin guy, where as i m a oriya , khandayat girl.Thats why his parents are not accepting me. He has one sister, for whome they are seeing matches also. In this case if we will marry first then her marriage will also affected. In my family , my parents also are not ready to wait more. They have started see matches for me. His parents are not allowing him to talk to me also. So in this case what should i do?</p>rajraj29questionMon, 25 Aug 2008 14:06:26 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/psychology_2731517526129/?src=rss:qb:qbihttp://yedda.com/questions/psychology_2731517526129/Raj_decide_means_family_man_nbsp_149936614995694?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>Hi Raj</p> <p>You have to decide what means more to you, your family or this man.  If being with him means you will lose your family, will you be able to cope with that, and are you sure that you will not resent him for it.</p> <p>On the other hand, not everyone finds love, so if you have found the man you love, then you should go for it as otherwise you could end up in a loveless marriage and never be happy.</p> <p>Perhaps once you are married, your parents will learn to accept you, it often happens after the children are born.</p> <p>Good luck!</p>Lou LouLou Loufemale33answer3.0Mon, 25 Aug 2008 15:20:06 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/psychology_2731517526129/Raj_decide_means_family_man_nbsp_149936614995694?src=rss:qb:qbihttp://yedda.com/questions/psychology_2731517526129/family_probleme_introduce_told_273873600513580?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>In my family there will be no probleme if I will introduce him to them. But the probleme is there in his family. He already told in his family about me. His parents are not even allowing him to talk to me. He is talking to me only at the office hours. And we are often meeting also outside. He is affraid to take decission against his parents, in other hand he loves me very much also. He cant live without me, so now tell me what should I do in this case?</p>rajraj29answer3.0Sun, 07 Sep 2008 00:18:08 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/psychology_2731517526129/family_probleme_introduce_told_273873600513580?src=rss:qb:qbi