My boyfriend and i just broke up and i feel pretty ...

kim — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 08:25:39 GMT

my boyfriend and i just broke up and i feel pretty stressed,i want to let go of him because he has hurt me a lot in life,he always makes me take blame for every hiccup that we have and believe me i am tired.We are not in talking terms and it feels like we are toddlers,we both stay in the same bilding iand i really want to let go.i dont want to act like some obsessed teenage freak.He knows that i love him so i thinhk he is taking advantage of that,even when he hurts me i always pretend i am fine just for the sake of saving our relationship from arguments,in his eyes i feel like he thinks i am desperate.I still love him but i want to prove him wrong,show him that i am a surviver.He does not deserve me.I REALLY WANT TO KNOW WAYS I CAN LET GO AND LIVE MY LIFE.He has kept me in the box for too long.

RE: My boyfriend and i just broke up and i feel pretty ...

Sammi BB — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 15:31:31 GMT

Surround yourself by family and friends who care about you. Don't let him see you on your own, because then he will think that you are depressed and missing him and lonely. Have your girlfriends take you out. The sooner you get yourself out there, the sooner you will start to meet new people. And my biggest piece of advice ... when you are next in a relationship, don't hide your feelings. Be honest and be yourself.