http://yedda.com/questions/relationships_advice_186833961821952/?src=rss:qb:qbsAs a 45 yr old woman, I am interested in taking a ...en-ushttp://static1.yeddacdn.com/images/Logo132X46_rmt9c1d22d.jpghttp://yedda.com/questions/relationships_advice_186833961821952/?src=rss:qb:qbsAs a 45 yr old woman, I am interested in taking a ...http://yedda.com/questions/relationships_advice_186833961821952/?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>As a 45 yr old woman, I am interested in taking a long time friendship to a higher level . . .feeling very scared of expressing it, as I don't want to dampen the current relationship, if it is not reciprecated. Any suggestions?</p>DawnDawn45questionSun, 19 Jul 2009 01:39:26 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/relationships_advice_186833961821952/?src=rss:qb:qbihttp://yedda.com/questions/relationships_advice_186833961821952/Dawn_nbsp_friends_man_long_time_627461513379830?src=rss:qb:qbi<p><em>Hi Dawn ,  You have been friends with this man for a long time .  I'd think you'd have some sort of a inner feeling on what his reaction might be .  I say be open and honest with him , tell him how you feel .  His reaction back to you will tell you how much to tell him .  Communicate with this man , you may get a pleasant surprise .  I think it is vital in any relationship that you not only be lovers but that you are also friends .  Good luck and keep us posted ! </em></p>EquusEquusfemale55answer4.0Sun, 19 Jul 2009 02:44:18 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/relationships_advice_186833961821952/Dawn_nbsp_friends_man_long_time_627461513379830?src=rss:qb:qbihttp://yedda.com/questions/relationships_advice_186833961821952/Greetings_Dawn_nbsp_long_term_951070861942389?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>Greetings Dawn:  A long term friendship is certainly an advantage for you.  Ask him the "have you ever" question.  "Have you ever wondered why our friendship never progressed to a relationship"?  Watch his expression and listen closely to his response.  You will know at that moment whether or not he <em>reciprocates.</em></p> <p>If your friendship is as close and lengthy as it appears, I wouldn't hesitate in asking him the question.  Close friends should be able to discuss anything openly.</p> <p>Wishing you the best!</p> <p>Arrivederci - TWM</p> <p><em> </em></p>The Wisest MomThe Wisest Mom49answer3.0Sun, 19 Jul 2009 07:37:21 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/relationships_advice_186833961821952/Greetings_Dawn_nbsp_long_term_951070861942389?src=rss:qb:qbihttp://yedda.com/questions/relationships_advice_186833961821952/Thank_Wisest_Woman_nbsp_answer_735724187835502?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>Thank you to the Wisest Woman!  The answer was very "soothing."   Perhaps with this, I will find it comfortable to bring up. </p>DawnDawn45answer3.0Sun, 19 Jul 2009 11:56:39 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/relationships_advice_186833961821952/Thank_Wisest_Woman_nbsp_answer_735724187835502?src=rss:qb:qbihttp://yedda.com/questions/relationships_advice_186833961821952/Thank_reply_nbsp_Communication_key_951975901176385?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>Thank you for your reply.  Communication is the key. I will keep you posted.   <img src="http://cdn.yedda.com/scripts/tinymce3211/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-smile.gif" alt="Smile" title="Smile"/></p>DawnDawn45answer3.0Sun, 19 Jul 2009 12:08:04 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/relationships_advice_186833961821952/Thank_reply_nbsp_Communication_key_951975901176385?src=rss:qb:qbihttp://yedda.com/questions/relationships_advice_186833961821952/Dawn_Thank_words_nbsp_wish_hope_273623774210151?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>Hi Dawn:</p> <p>Thank you for your kind words.  I wish you the best and hope everything works out well for you.</p> <p>Take good care and be well.</p> <p>Arrivederci - TWM</p>The Wisest MomThe Wisest Mom49answer3.0Mon, 20 Jul 2009 14:32:30 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/relationships_advice_186833961821952/Dawn_Thank_words_nbsp_wish_hope_273623774210151?src=rss:qb:qbi