How do I tell him we are only friends and nothing else and it will not change in the near future.http://yedda.com/questions/tell_friends_change_near_future_5041520617829/?src=rss:qb:qbsHow do I tell him we are only friends and nothing else and it will not change in the near future.en-usHow do I tell him we are only friends and nothing else and it will not change in the near future.http://static1.yeddacdn.com/images/Logo132X46_rmt9c1d22d.jpghttp://yedda.com/questions/tell_friends_change_near_future_5041520617829/?src=rss:qb:qbsHow do I tell him we are only friends and nothing else and it will not change in the near future.How do I tell him we are only friends and nothing else and it will not change in the near future.http://yedda.com/questions/tell_friends_change_near_future_5041520617829/?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>an ex bf left me his number at my house without his last name asking me to call him. </p>We dated 26 yrs ago. I called him we met and he called me and asked what I was doing. I told him I was going to do some work on my floors he said he knew how to do and he could help and not charge me. I thought oh great, not so great now he thinks I am his girl. He will work so late that he won't go home, because he has been drinking, He made friends with the neighbors. I put a stop for him to come over my house I will finish the work however I can, I don't want to lead him on. He  left tools and uncompleted work. How do I go about this. I have been rude to him I told him to get out of my way, his feelings were hurt but three days later he calls back like nothing. I thought I could let him finish the job but he didn't he only started another one.  I have ceramic floors to complete and a large cement walkway. I don't want him to think I am ungreatful. I did pay him some money. What I want him to do is leave me alone. Without hurting his feelings. If we could remain platonic friends would be great.meretanameretanafemale55questionMon, 05 May 2008 04:19:36 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/tell_friends_change_near_future_5041520617829/?src=rss:qb:qbiRE: How do I tell him we are only friends and nothing else and it will not change in the near future.http://yedda.com/questions/tell_friends_change_near_future_5041520617829/3L_Love_laugh_2_options_nbsp_518614173376693?src=rss:qb:qbi<p>Hi 3L ( = Love, live, laugh)...... <br/>You have 2 options:  Discuss it with him and make your point clear (prepare, in advance, what and how you are going to say it, and then tell him exactly what you have in mind and what you want / expect)..... Or, if you can't discuss it with him send him a letter (or e-mail).  In both cases you'll have to be smart and sensetive in picking your words.  <br/>Best regards, </p>OronDOronDmale110answer5.0Mon, 05 May 2008 08:04:34 GMThttp://yedda.com/questions/tell_friends_change_near_future_5041520617829/3L_Love_laugh_2_options_nbsp_518614173376693?src=rss:qb:qbi